I have been told & heard many times that, as a Christian, I should not lament, it expresses a lack of faith. This is not true. I hope this message teaches you that lamenting is actually good for you and David who wrote the Psalms, lamented and he was known as a man after God's heart!
Yours,
KittensCushion
But if we look forward to something we don't yet have, we must wait patiently and confidently.) And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don't know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God's own will. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.
Here are some benefits of God-centered, tear-soaked, Spirit-filled, Bible-based, gut-level lamenting.
- When you lament, you allow yourself to feel. Numbing yourself to the hurt means you stop feeling everything else in life. Lamenting helps you feel life's full range of normal emotions.
- When you lament, you process pain. Lamenting helps you work through your heartaches. You have to feel so you can heal.
- When you lament, you grieve your involvement and shed your victim mind-set. Lamenting allows you to evaluate what you have done, where you must change, and how you can act differently in the future.
- When you lament, you don't lash out in vengeance at others. Lamenting helps you work out with God the energy and frustration that naturally comes from pain.
- When you lament, you empathize with others who are hurting. After you have lamented your pain with the Lord and experienced healing in your soul, you can invite people who have experienced similar pains to share those with you.
- When you lament, you feel hope for the future. Failing to lament leaves you forever circling the drain of the past, never escaping the toxicity that surrounds. Lamenting allows you to look up from your tears to see what God might have on the horizon.
- When you lament, you escape anger and depression. Some people stuck in a spiral of grief are prone to depression. Lamenting allows you to avoid depression—as well as depression masked by anger.
How did Jesus deal with His suffering? By Spirit-led lamenting. Isaiah 53:3 calls Him our "suffering servant" (NASB) a "man of sorrows," and "acquainted with grief."
Emotional and tear-filled New Testament scenes let us see the Lord Jesus weep over Jerusalem, mourn the death of His dear friend Lazarus, and agonize on the cross.
Jesus worked through His suffering by lamenting, and He helps us do the same.
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