Here is a prayer that was offered up during a wedding ceremony, that beautifully captures what a marriage should hope to be with help and guidance from the Lord
O eternal God: We bring Thee our children. They were Thine, but Thou in love didst lend them to us for a little season to care for, to love, and to cherish. It has been a labor of love that has seemed but a few days because of the affection we bear them. Fresh from Thy hand they were in the morning of their lives. Clean and upright, but yet two separate personalities. Tonight we give them back to Thee—no longer as two—but as one flesh. May nothing short of death dissolve the union here cemented. And to this end let the marvelous grace of God do its perfect work!
It is also our earnest prayer for them, not that God shall have a part of their lives, but that He shall have the preeminent part; not that they shall possess faith, but that faith shall fully possess them both; that in a materialistic world they shall not live for the earthly and temporal alone, but that they shall be enabled to lay hold of that which is spiritual and eternal.
Let their lives together be like the course of the sun—rising in strength, going forth in power, and shining more and more unto the perfect day. Let the end of their lives resemble the setting of the sun—going down in a sea of glory, only to shine on undimmed in the firmament of a better world than this. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.
Isn't that a wonderful description of the purpose of marriage? A man and a woman are joined together as "one flesh," forever united by God's grace in a holy effort to achieve the best He has to offer—a life shining like the sun, built on love for the Lord, on a fully realized faith, and on the promise of the eternal.
HERE ARE 10 ESSENTIALS TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE LAST
1. Reserve time for one another at all costs.
2. Spend only what you have — financial stress kills romance.
3. Leave no room for selfishness — be relationship givers and not takers.
4. Make sure the "leave and cleave" principle takes place (Genesis 2:24).
5. Bring your expectations in line with reality — the perfect spouse does not exist.
6. Trust one another and build reasonable boundaries — jealousy and trust rarely co-exist.
7. Avoid alcohol or substance abuse, pornography, gambling and other potential addictions that will quickly kill your marriage and your life.
8. Be content with having enough — "Give me neither poverty nor riches, but
give me only my daily bread" (Proverbs 30:8).
9. Think of your marriage as a marathon — you will need determination and
faith to go the distance of a lifetime.
10. Keep Christ at the center and remember His words, "In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world"
(John 16:33).
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