Can I forgive and still trash talk the one who hurt me?

I was reading this tonight and it was a message directed at me and my heart.

It's so easy to just want to spew all our thoughts and frustrations about those who hurt us however that only serves to make us hurt more.

Here is a great way to deal with those kinds of human beings :

Four Steps to Victory in Forgiveness

"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."

‭‭Galatians‬ ‭6:9‬ ‭NIV‬‬

http://bible.com/111/gal.6.9.niv

You cannot make wrong feelings go away any more than you can make right ones come, but God can and will. If you will simply do what Scripture instructs you to do, you will be able to work through the process of forgiveness.

1) The first thing you decide is to forgive those who have hurt you; 

2) the second thing is to pray for them. 

3) Another thing God tells you to do is to bless your enemies. To bless someone means to speak well of them and want good things for them. Refuse to talk unkindly about those who hurt you. Don't keep talking about what your enemies did; it only keeps the pain stirred up in you. 

4) The fourth thing you must do is wait. Don't give up. Keep doing what is right, and wait on God to change your feelings and He will.

Power Thought:Forgiveness is a process; God gives me the strength to walk it out.

From the book Power Thoughts Devotional by Joyce Meyer. Copyright © 2010 by Joyce Meyer. Published by FaithWords. All rights reserved.