4 Key Steps Toward Real Life change

The secret to real life change begins with the “ah-ha.” What’s an “ah-ha”? It’s in that moment when we discover the heart of the issue and our part in it, with a desire to own the next steps. That’s because most of what we perceive as a dead-end, stuck-in-a-rut reality is not as hopeless at we think it is. We can change our approach. We can embrace a new mindset.

  While we may not be able to heal thyself, we can certainly choose an attitude that lines up with a eternal perspective as we move through treatment.

     We might not be able to change their behavior, which is causing havoc on our personal life, but we can choose a response that reflects the heart of Christ and the truth of Scripture.

     We might not be able to erase the past, however we can move towards seeking God to heal our wounds and give us a new way of thinking that is in line with His Word.

See, the real life change we crave is often a matter of embracing a biblical mindset over focusing on our circumstances — that’s because most of our circumstances are out of our control.

4 Key Steps Toward Real Life change:

1. Identify What Was and What Is:

Clearly articulate the circumstances, mindset, and habits that need to be changed,  even pinpointing how it all came to be, along with the “ah-ha”moment that invites real life change. Write it down as a reminder in the future.

 2. Count the Cost:

Prayerfully consider what the cost is to not move forward in real life change. Consider what will happen if you stay “as is” compared to take the sometimes uncomfortable and scary steps forward.

 3. Own the Obstacles:

Consider the obstacles that made change impossible in the past and may make it challenging in moving forward.  Own your sin and be honest about temptations, as you make choices about what to do differently.

 4. Prepare to Persevere: Brainstorm ways to seek help and accountability for moving forward. Set a goal date or a “check-in” date to have a finish line, or lap marker, to press on towards.

Real life change is possible, if you’re willing to participate actively in the process with the Lord. God’s sustaining, transforming power is available to you, my friend. He’s just waiting for you to say “yes” to His sanctifying, abundant life-giving invitation.

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By Lynn Cowell